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and yet this new blogger seemed really uncomfortable having even a couple of minutes conversation.
I didn’t think anything more about the blog until last week, when I saw an article in the Mirror about a dating blog, and recognised its author.
Because rather than write all the details of the dates, I’d write about what we did, and the lessons I learned.
Most of the lessons I learned were about myself and dating.
A few months ago, on Valentine’s Day, I attended a Loveflutter event.
It was the ‘Anti Selfie’ party, where singles wore paper bags on their head.
What I will say, as a seasoned dating blogger, I’m quite protective of my craft.Guys knew I was writing about the dates, and so chose to do things, or not do things, because I would be writing about it.But despite those odd elements, this blog has been widely well received, by both men and women.You don’t have the full anonymity of a computer screen, and so you think before you type. And self-censorship is important when you’re writing about dating – because dating isn’t just about you. There’s a very careful tightrope to tread, writing about your dates, being entertaining, sharing some of the details of the date, but without airing someone else’s dirty laundry. Without betraying the trust you give someone else when you go on a date with them, and share random stories with them.When you date, you spend time one-on-one with a complete stranger. What helped, when I wrote about my 30 blind dates, was that I knew the guys were reading the posts.
Today the blog also appeared in a list of ‘Must Read’ dating blogs, together with veteran dating blogs 30 Something London and All Sweetness and Life, which I truly feel have earned their stripes in the world of dating blogs.